He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still -Lao-Tzu

Sunday, September 18, 2011

A whole hand

I’m having a hard time looking forward to the joyous occasion of birthdays these days.  Especially this week.  For a single reason.  I’m just not ready for them to get any older.  Up until this year I was so excited for the milestones and the passing of phases.  

  • Sleeping through the night
  • Shrinking of the size of bag I lug around
  • Feeding themselves
  • Potty trained
  • Learning to communicate.
  • Picking up after themselves
  • No screaming fits in the store
  • Life doesn’t revolve around naptime
  • Etc etc etc.

All 3 children are onto the next phase in childhood and I’m not ready.   Because what also comes with all of those very convenient comforts of growth are:

  • Less snuggling time
  • don’t kiss me in public
  • No more lap naps
  • Learning to communicate (barter/manipulate/negotiate)
  • bigger clothes
  • bigger appetites
  • sending them to school

My little Jared turned 5 last week and I was not happy about it.  I asked him if he would mind repeating his fourth year of life.  He thought long and hard for a full second before declining.  Sigh.  I love you my tiny person.  Happy Birthday! 

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1 comments:

  1. So with you on this one Jules! My baby is turning 1 and I'm in complete denial. The years fly by!

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